a: If you're not ready, don't do it! Being a small town girl, I can totally relate.
I think women focus on the wrong things when it comes to marriage, as if the wedding is the end-all, be-all. Hell no! The agony and ecstasy begins now. I say, focus on the relationship; the marriage itself. The wedding is only for a day...make the marriage last longer than it takes to pay off the wedding bills.
As for kids...do you really know how much it costs? My nail polish fund becomes diaper money? FUCK NO! Not just the monetary cost, but the physical, emotional and mental costs are dramatically high. If you've still got some wild oats to sow, I strongly recommend NOT having kids.
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Amen Sista Girl Amen
glad to see someone agrees (:
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